Teenage Pregancy and LUST!

Teenage pregnancy has become a big problem in our society. For some ladies, they just simply did not have the right guidance and for others, it was all a "in the moment" thing. Fornication is getting so hard NOT to do because of what we are being exposed to everyday. The porn, sex tapes, sex scandals, porn on phones, sexual images, and sexual music/youtube videos (which can stimulate your mind to watch porn/have sex), shows like "16 and Pregnant" which made some teens want to get pregnant JUST to be on TV. It is almost IMPOSSIBLE not to see anything sexual today because its so accessible which is part of the reason why babies are having babies. Ladies if a man says, "If you love me, you will have sex with me," its a lie from hell. Tell him, "If you love me, you will WAIT" via www.twitter.com/LoveJokesFacts -

Reasons why some people have sex/masterbait

1. Looking at porn
2. Looking at sexual images
3. Boredom
4. Stress
5. A conversation with a friend that had sex
6. Pressure
7. Tired of being made fun of for being a virgin
8. Lusting of someone who they have a strong attraction to
9. Etc.

All of these triggers/stimulates the mind for a sexual pleasure craving!

Well I don't want to have sex, or I want to be celibate, what are some things I should consider doing?

1. Praying
2. Reading
3. Stop putting yourself in tempted situations
4. Communicating with someone you trust who deals with the same thing or someone who HAS dealt with the struggle
5. Stay busy
6. Gaining MIND-CONTROL <== Sex isn't anything but a mind thing. You master this, you become unstoppable with ALL temptation ( doing drugs, etc. )

Ask yourself these 3 questions:

1. Am I ready for a baby?
2. Is ( insert bf/gf name) ready for a baby?
3. Do I have the financials to provide for a child?
4. How will a baby change my life?
5. Have I done all the partying, hanging out, having fun I want to have? (Not saying u cant when you have a baby, but its harder to do it)
6. Am I ready to put my life on a long hold to be a great mother?
7. Am I ready to take on adult responsibilities? (Diaper changing, feeding the baby, waking up at odd times of the night, finding a baby sitter, etc.)

If you cant say YES to all of these questions……then my tip to the ladies who have no kids but are sexually active, always keep them in mind. Most dudes bail out when you say you are pregnant but, always be safe, use protection. THINK……THINK……THINK!!!

To all my teenage parents, stay strong, you HAVE to be strong for your baby especially if the dad isn't trying to be in their life...God bless you!