The pain u feel when u FIRST get out of a relationship when u were in love, is no joke. Be wanting to cry, can't eat, can't sleep, stomach be hurting, you be wanting to pick up the phone & talk to them, then again you don't, it makes you confused, make you want to say f*** love & don't ever give anyone else your heart. It be like, if I did ALL this stuff for this person, NEVER cheated on them, & THEY can turn around & do this to me, who WON'T?! But I think we all have to experience that some point in our life to better appreciate the person we are destined for. Its like going through a financial struggle. If you NEVER went through a struggle, it's makes it so much easier for us to take our BLESSING for granted. If we have NEVER been with someone that has hurt us, cheated on us, or did something to make us stronger, we would probably more than likely take the person we ARE destined for, for granted. It's SO HARD to hear those words "Everything happens for a reason" but they are so real. That's why I always say, "NEVER GIVE UP ON LOVE." That person that hurt you was suppose to make you stronger more appreciative, and more grateful for your soul-mate. Love is a beautiful thing, an INCREDIBLE feeling, something that NO ONE other than YOU and the person you are in love with can feel or describe. No matter how hard it gets, or how much faith you lose in the word "love" always remember, if you and someone is meant to be, that God has planned for you, He will MAKE SURE it works out and no one will be able to come in between or break that up because when He has something planned, no force or power is strong enough to tear it apart. I had to say that because so many people are giving up and the crazy thing is, most of us are UNDER 30 giving up ALREADY! If you get in a relationship, take it serious because me personally, I wouldn't EVER want a female or male to have to experience that pain. If you make or is thinking about making someone your bf/or gf your first question should always be, "can I see them as my husband or wife?!" If you can't then getting into a relationship is basically pointless at that moment. Never give up on love, its a great feeling & me personally, I would LOVE to be able to experience it again some time in my future but until then, I am going sit back, go to school, continue doing music with my group until we get blessed to go Major, and enjoy my single life with a big ol smile on my face =)
Ways to get over someone:
1. Stay busy
2. Hide anything that would jog memories about them
3. Do things that make you happy ( read, write, watch movies etc. )
4. Talk to friends/fam and/or people who have been through the same thing
5. Accept it and move on and KNOW there IS something better whether you believe it or NOT!
DON'T GIVE UP AND STAY STRONG!!!
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